The Selfish Seamstress has decided to take the moral high road and forgive Dan after yesterday’s unfortunate Burda incident. As a gesture of goodwill, I graciously permitted him to take photographs of my newly finished Drama Queen Jacket, McCall 5478 (now out of print) rendered in silvery leopard print duchesse satin.
The lining is some silvery teal slightly iridescent rayon that I discovered in my stash. I think I purchased it in Germany back in 2007 and didn’t even realize I still had some. Awesome. Lining fabrics are one of those things that always seem to be lacking in my stash.
I really loved making up this pattern. The draft is great and the fit was perfect (it’s one of those patterns that have difference pieces for A/B, C, and D cups). All I did was grade it down to a size 4 and do a petite alteration as marked on the pattern, and it was spot on. I omitted the pocket flaps and added two inches to the length, and I also skipped the back tab thingy because I wanted to be able to wear this with a belt.
The back has a pleated vent with an underlay and it makes for a very flattering peplum shape- not too exaggerated as to be silly, but just a little bit of flare:
Oops- I see a loose thread that I need to clip there. The prescribed method of attaching the lining at the hem doesn’t make a lot of sense to me because you’re supposed to stitch it over the pleat underlay, which would essentially render the back vent non-functional. Instead I did an invisible hem on the lining and let it hang free, which I sometimes like to do with my jacket linings anyway.
I did two self fabric covered buttons for closure. I could have done a third one, but given that I wanted to belt it, I decided against it.
I’ve seen a few people style this jacket with a turtleneck, and the envelope itself has the model wearing a turtleneck under this, but I don’t think I could work that look. With this dramatic open portrait collar, a big swath of fabric underneath wouldn’t work on me. Plus, I like putting my clavicle on display.
Oh, I got bitten by a mosquito while we were outside. Yes I know I’m not supposed to scratch it, thanks mom.
Final verdict on this one? Nuh-uh. Elizabeth recently wrote a very thoughtful and interest post about “wadders” and learning from sewing mistakes. And it got me thinking about the various ways in which a project might not work out. This is one of them. From an engineering standpoint, this jacket is a success. It came together well, and it fits great. But cute as I think it is, it’s just wrong for me. As soon as I put it on for Dan to see, he made a face and said, “It’s a little, um… mature for you. It looks like something your mom would wear.” Ordinarily I would have responded to this by ignoring him for days, and opening my mouth only to say, “If you don’t know, I’m not going to tell you,” in response to his queries about why I was upset. But the truth is that Dan said exactly the same things that I was thinking when I was making it and trying it on in the process. It’s just not right on me.
Ultimately, this jacket feels costumey when I wear it, like a poodle skirt or leisure suit. I can’t see myself wearing it- certainly not to work or out to dinner or to a wedding. Women in their 30s don’t wear dressy suits to weddings, they wear dresses. I also tried it with skinny jeans and tall, high-heeled cordovan boots, and it doesn’t dress down enough either because it’s satin. I could rock this at some sort of vintage-themed cocktail party, but how often does that happen? For any actual real-life events it’s just a bit too wealthy Park Avenue dowager. Maybe in 10 years, we’ll see.
But Dan (and I) are right about one thing- it would look terrific on my mom. She could wear it over a black sheath to a wedding and be a knockout. So I guess she’ll be getting another something in the mail along with her Swallowtail Shawl!
Don’t worry though – I plan to make this great jacket pattern up in a more sedate fabric so that I can wear it to work, and I’ve got plenty more of the leopard fabric earmarked for a hot pencil skirt that I will keep.
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June 20, 2010 at 7:34 am
Erica B.
I think it’s just fabulous! I’m clearly the “mature” type because I love it! I would wear it in the Fall with a black turtleneck, dark denim jeans, a pointy-toed pump and red gloves! I think that way it would look less costumey, but would still have a vintage appeal!
June 20, 2010 at 8:10 am
selfishseamstress
You would totally rock this jacket, dressed up or dressed down. I can’t imagine an outfit that you couldn’t rock, “mature” or not!
June 21, 2010 at 6:51 am
nettie
You have the type of style and confidence to never feel costume-y in anything, I think!! I really admire that about your style, Erica.
June 20, 2010 at 7:37 am
Lisa
I think the jacket looks amazing on you. I doesn’t look costumey at all! Beatiful!
June 20, 2010 at 7:58 am
Christina
This does not make you look old but ELEGANT!! I´d be a shame if you didn´t wear it.
June 20, 2010 at 8:09 am
selfishseamstress
Awww, thanks :) Sorry, I wasn’t fishing for affirmation there. I actually don’t think it makes me look old either. When I wear it though, I feel like a little kid wearing mommy’s high heels. I think it doesn’t register quite as costumey in the photos because it’s not as satin-y looking in the pics. I think if this had a more woolly texture, that would push this back over the line to the point that I’d feel comfortable in it.
June 20, 2010 at 7:59 am
Sonoemi
Wow, what an elegant drama queen!
The pattern I must remember me, I like it very much!
June 20, 2010 at 8:00 am
girdtmom
Oooh, lucky mom!
June 20, 2010 at 8:09 am
Toby Wollin
Everyone has their own ‘this does not feel right’ radar – though I think it looks great on you, you don’t feel it looks great on you so that’s it. And though you give it ‘M for Mature’ rating, I have to say that my alarms were going off ‘ah ooo gah; ah ooo gah’ when I saw the pattern in the first place. I’m mature for sure but it…would..just…not…look…good…on …me.
June 20, 2010 at 8:12 am
Jane W.
Your maturity is inspiring. I would have posted a virtual tantrum, not the zen-like acceptance that you have shared with us.
Stunning, as always!
June 20, 2010 at 9:03 am
D
how very unselfish of you to give it to your mother! ;)
June 20, 2010 at 9:14 am
Sandi
I think it is a stunning jacket. Your mom will love it, I bet. It is, I believe, appropriately selfish to want your creation to have a good home even if it is not a fit in your closet. My own mother has acquired a couple of things this way.
June 20, 2010 at 9:23 am
Beth
I think you are spot on (ha ha) with your analysis of the finished jacket. not quite right on you (unlike your lime trench coat – loved that) however the sewing looks fantastic.
and thanks for the info on this pattern. I have it in my stash and every year I seem to torture myself with an extremely complicated plaid jacket, obsessing over the plaid matching. And then annoying all my friends by pointing out the incredible achievement of plaid-ness. But this looks like it has potential.
And yes, I was thinking turtleneck also. Hmmmm. oh well, winter is far away here in CA.
June 20, 2010 at 10:05 am
Amy
Well, i think it looks great. But I’ve come to use the “would i buy it?” rule. And If I wouldn’t after its finished, i know ill have a happy friend who can get some use out of it!
June 20, 2010 at 10:05 am
Farah
You did a fantastic job on that jacket, you should be proud of yourself, but I think you are right. It’s a bit too dressy-looking for the occasions where you would want to wear a jacket. I can see it on a hip mother-of-the-bride at a bachlorette party.
But now that you have successded so triumphantly on the engineering
June 20, 2010 at 10:07 am
Farah
You did a fantastic job on that jacket, you should be proud of yourself, but I think you are right. It’s a bit too dressy-looking for the occasions where you would want to wear a jacket. I can see it on a hip mother-of-the-bride at a bachlorette party.
But now that you have succeeded so triumphantly on the engineering of the jacket, think of how perfect it will be in a different fabric!
June 20, 2010 at 10:11 am
Memaw sews
I think this jacket looks great on you!
June 20, 2010 at 10:16 am
oonaballoona
i wonder… if on your next go around, you raised– oh hell, here’s where my little bit of sewing knowledge becomes completely clear, i don’t know what to call it. the hem of the jacket? anyways, if the jacket hem hit about 3 inches higher, i think the style would feel younger and flirty. i have this same problem with jackets– not that i’ve ever made any; see previous statement regarding knowledge– i’m petite as well, and jackets just seem to look better that way. gives you more leg. and with those legs, mama, why not :)
lucky mom you have!
June 20, 2010 at 10:18 am
Rebecca
I agree with you about how the jacket is a little mature. Love the shape, construction and fabric pattern, but you are right, the satin ages it. Its great that it will find a home in your mom’s closet. Many of my projects have ended up with my mom because they either fit better or are more her style than mine.
June 20, 2010 at 10:21 am
Rose
I agree, the clavicle is where it’s at.
I have made many a garment that I ended up not liking, wearing or using. At least you have someone to send it to so it won’t go to waste. I would love to pass some along, but I don’t know anyone my size. Sometimes mine go to the Goodwill and I just have to wonder if someone will buy it and if they will appreciate the work and love that went into it. I have such a hard time visualizing whether a certain fabric and pattern combination will work, and I’ve been sewing for nearly 30 years.
I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who flubs the occasional garment. Sometimes it just seems like such a waste (of time and fabric) to have a failure, but I try to keep in mind the words of the French sculptor Auguste Rodin, “Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely.”
June 20, 2010 at 10:39 am
Lynette
The jacket looks amazing, but I can see why you think it’s to “mature” You’re mom is a very lucky lady =)
June 20, 2010 at 10:46 am
Bron
I think it looks fantastic. You are so skilled.
June 20, 2010 at 11:04 am
Amanda S.
This has happened to me more times then I care to think about. Glad you have someone to send it to that will really appreciate it. And I had that pattern at one time. Guess I must have purged it because it’s not in my stash anymore. (Now WHY did I do that?!) It’s a great style and the fit looks perfect.
June 20, 2010 at 11:07 am
queentanya
You look lovely in the jacket and the shoes are fab. As you say, maybe it’s the sheen plus print that makes it too costume-y in person.
June 20, 2010 at 11:14 am
Christina
I think it looks great and not too “mature” at all. This jacket is a dead ringer of this Lanvin(?) coat here: http://s3.amazonaws.com/media2.styledon.com/entry_images/4160/original.jpg?1276786600
June 20, 2010 at 11:15 am
sisters4saymoreismore
freaking LOVE this! i NEED one… i sadly do not have the skills just yet…
June 20, 2010 at 11:30 am
Elizabeth
Awww…. I am so sad that this jacket doesn’t feel right for you. But I totally understand trusting your inner voice. And your mom is one lucky gal. Thanks for the shout out!
June 20, 2010 at 11:49 am
adelaide b
It is super cute, but I get where you are coming from. I make a lot of things that just aren’t really me, aren’t as flattering as I would like, or just wrong for anyone. It’s part of the process. A sucky one, but an important one.
June 20, 2010 at 11:59 am
Ana
I think the jacket looks great on you – not at all cougar-y or over-mature, but then there are things that I make that other people like and I just think the opposite. Anyway, it’s a win for your mum which is more than happens with my sewing!
June 20, 2010 at 12:24 pm
Victoria
I think you look fab in this leopard print jacket. It doesn’t look costumey to me but I can understand your point. I love the fabric and can’t wait to see it as a cute skirt:)
June 20, 2010 at 12:41 pm
Renita
I think it looks great on you! But when you said it was a wadder, I went back and looked at all the pictures again. You could cut away some of the front hem to give it a fresher and edgy-er lower front hem which would be a contrast to the back and open the front bottom to reflect the front top. Also what you pair it with would determine if it were ‘mature’: brown skirt-yes; silver-stitched Jalie jeans===NO!! But I guess your mom wins this one.
June 20, 2010 at 12:55 pm
Lisa
You look awesome. I think it would totally work for a wedding. You Mom is lucky to get it. Nice job on the construction.
June 20, 2010 at 1:44 pm
Karen
I agree that you should follow your own intuition about whether something is “you” or not. I don’t think that the issue with this jacket is a matter of one’s maturity or age but rather of one’s personality.
Case in point: I purchased a jacket and pants to wear to my daughter’s college family weekend. When both of my daughters saw the outfit, they refused to let me wear it. Their words, “It is too old for you!”
Bear in mind that as a mother with children old enough to be in college, it is doubtful that the outfit was “too old” for me. When I told them that I just wanted to fit in with the other moms they replied, “but you aren’t like the other moms.”
So I wore the only other thing that I had with me. A sun dress and cardigan, just like my two daughters. And just like the other college girls on campus. My daughters were happy, and I felt more like me.
Perhaps some day I will be “old enough” for that outfit, but knowing me, probably not.
June 20, 2010 at 1:53 pm
Jeanne B.
If had your figure and that outfit, I would rock the graphic design interviews. That is CLASSIC. Cutting edge, sexy without being overt, wild enough for a creative person—LOVE IT.
Want it.
Am now on extreme weight loss and exercise plan so I can fit into it. Maybe not satin leopard, but something equally rockin’.
Where do I get this pattern? Because I am SO making this jacket and a rockin’ pair of trousers (no skirts for me, thanks).
And who said women in their 30s can’t wear something like this to an event (wedding)? Why not? I would, and I’ll be 47 next week. It’s GORGEOUS. You’re gorgeous. Wear it everywhere, with pride.
June 20, 2010 at 2:11 pm
Jeanne B.
Never mind—I found the pattern online at McCalls’ website. It’s out of print but orderable. It’s on its way. Thank you for previewing it, and showing me what it looks like “in real life”. McCalls should give you a sales commission! LOL
June 20, 2010 at 3:12 pm
Samina
I think that the jacket is tres chic, but I agree that it’s a bit much for your age group. I’m a bit older than you (I think) & I’d feel like I was dressing up in my mom’s clothes if I wore something like that. That said, it does make for a smashing photo shoot!
June 20, 2010 at 4:03 pm
Gail
There is something very 50s Hollywood glamour about your ensemble. I love the combination of cut and print and the workmanship is exquisite. No need to be jealously stalking other sewers. You are NUMERO UNO!
June 20, 2010 at 5:03 pm
Fourth Daughter
It’s gorgeous and it makes your clavicle look amazing!! :) I’m sure your mum will lend it back to you if you decide to send it to her in spite of how great you look in it!
June 20, 2010 at 6:11 pm
ali
Man, I think this is fabulous, because weddings or formal dinner out are not exactly on my social calendar, but vintage-themed cocktail parties? Nearly a weekly event, lol.
Hope your mom enjoys the double windfall.
June 21, 2010 at 1:13 am
Marie-Christine
I know what you mean. I just spent my sewing time this weekend ripping out the sleeves on a t-shirt I didn’t wear for over a year, even though I adore the fabric. It’s a lovely flowery thing that looks Persian, or maybe Chinese, anyway it’s utterly beautiful. But I went and made the big poofy sleeves that seem to be everywhere at the moment. Well, those sleeves are fine on the plain grey that I also made, and I do wear that happily. But with the flowers they just push the whole thing into girly territory. And girly is just not me. Every time I got it out of the closet because of the fabric giving me the eye, I put it back in.
So ripping serged seams isn’t my idea of fun. But if you aren’t going to wear it, that’s worse. In your case, sending it to mom is totally the right thing to do. But please do make a plainer one for work, because it does look very good on you :-).
June 21, 2010 at 6:50 am
BeckyW
Your jacket looks gorgeous on you. Lucky day for your mom.
June 21, 2010 at 7:04 am
nettie
I love the shape of this!! Especially the peplum!
June 21, 2010 at 8:01 am
June
So you still have a figure that allows you to fit into high school prom dresses, and your mom has a figure that allows you to send her stuff that fits you?!? Heavens, what a great gene pool! LOL.
I thought the jacket was beautifully made. Well done! I’m looking forward to seeing future iterations.
June 21, 2010 at 8:20 am
amber
In the pictures, this looks so fabulous on you! But, I do understand listening to your gut – if it doesn’t feel right to *you*, then yeah, it’s probably best to pass it along to someone who could get some great use out of it. But, I fully support you making another version in a less flashy fabric because the cut of the jacket (especially the portrait collar) is really lovely on you.
Btw, I’m so happy to hear about your self-imposed dance class bootcamp. Sounds like so much fun!! :) I’m actually hoping to squeeze in a few dance classes here and there once the second round of Peak 10 is complete. There is a burlesque ballet class that sounds really cool (and a bit seductive?). ;)
June 21, 2010 at 9:52 am
Bonnie
Your jacket is gorgeous! I’m sure your mom will love it! I can’t wait to see the next version you make.
June 21, 2010 at 11:19 am
Anonymous
This is super elegant on you. But I too feel that this would not get much worn in a regular 30s life. It sounds fabulous that you have a gorgeous jacket to ship to your Mum along with the swallowtail and you have fabric left over to make a skirt out of this. And yours (and Dan’s) ideas about this jacket are syncing in quite perfectly I might add:).
June 21, 2010 at 11:23 am
Jali
Sorry, I didn’t think I was posting as Anonymous.
June 21, 2010 at 1:36 pm
inkstain
I think this looks great on you. I would wear it, but make sure it’s more casual with a turtleneck and some black jeans. I’ve spent a lot of time in Manila and Hong Kong and I know you want to avoid the “taitai” out to lunch look, but this could be quite rock chick in a good way.
I’m not sure it’s all that mature, but what is mature is the heels and skirt part of the ensemble, like you take this jacket too seriously.
June 21, 2010 at 6:27 pm
rita
Very much agree.
Try dressing it down to add an edge to an otherwise “prim” garment… with jeans, black tank, and boots. It’s a nice jacket, fits well, looks good on you.
Wear it like you don’t care either.
Or you can just gift it to your mom. :)
June 21, 2010 at 2:40 pm
Tasia
Totally know how it feels when you make something that’s ‘good on paper’ but not quite right on person. I like this jacket, but if it doesn’t feel like ‘you,’ then you’re right to pass it on to someone better suited to the style. Your mom will be so pleased!
Gotta appreciate Dan’s honesty – at least he’s not just nodding and smiling!
June 21, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Angela
I love this pattern and the jacket looks great! I’m sure your mom would be thrilled!
June 21, 2010 at 4:34 pm
Markie
I made this jacket for my then 20 year old daughter. She loved it. I think it is amazing on you! Maybe if you thought “Audrey Hepburn” or “Grace Kelly” you would like it better. That’s how I see it on you. But, if you can’t get over it, lucky Mom!!!
June 21, 2010 at 9:22 pm
Therese
I love the jacket on you – can’t you just wear it once to the ballet before giving it to your mom?
June 22, 2010 at 12:17 am
juebejue
darn, i really like the fit of this jacket, its so sad that you are not going to wear it when you have lined it!! i usually give up half way when i know its not going to work :P
but maybe in 10 years, im sure you will still fit :)
June 22, 2010 at 3:53 am
Cissie Wellons
Well, who am I to disagree with a drama queen. But I think the jacket looks fantastic on you. However, if you are intent on giving it away, why not be truly selfish and deprive your mother of the chance to own such a gorgeous piece. Be selfish — give it to a perfect stranger! Moi!
June 22, 2010 at 5:08 am
Dava
I admire your ability to be realistic in spite of all the effort you put into doing such a beautiful job (I should add that I think you look fabulous in it, but I believe feeling comfortable is one of the reasons people sew).
This has the potential to be a family heirloom. Great jacket!
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June 22, 2010 at 12:20 pm
Pammie
Well, I don’t know if anyone’s discussed this in a blog – but I surmise (based on what I’ve bought in Vegas over the years) – that people have a wardrobe just for Vegas – it’s not a bad idea and this would be a perfect piece for the “Selfish Vegas Wardrobe.”
June 22, 2010 at 12:21 pm
Kristen
I disagree…..You look great in the jacket. But, ultimately, it is how you feel in it that counts. Your mom is a very lucky lady if she inherits this one!
Kristen
June 24, 2010 at 8:13 am
senaSews
I really like the jacket. It’s very flattering and feminine. Your mom will be very happy!
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