The Selfish Seamstress was shuffling through some of her vintage sewing books last night and stumbled upon a nice old issue of “Vogue Sewing Book” from 1958, a great year for clothes. It’s not the great big reference book (I have that one too though), but a slim paperback volume that has some neat tricks and tips, a fabric glossary, and some other handy articles. Perhaps it is the predecessor to Vogue Patterns magazine? It does feature a lot of Vogue patterns. I’m not quite sure:
As I was flipping through it, I stumbled upon a photo story of a lovely young lady who spends a peaceful and serene weekend sewing a pretty dress for herself. Of course, everything goes off without a hitch for Mrs. Vogue, much like when the Selfish Seamstress sews. Or not!
So finish up your juice and cookies and pull up your play mats, kiddies, because it’s story time! (Which I hope is not a violation of copyright.) Naturally, I will insert my own occasionally snide commentary, namely in regards to how Mrs. Vogue and Ms. Selfish are so very truly not the same at all.
Once upon a time…
Note to self: “being completely feminine” = “no sense of restraint.” Got it.
This is ever so slightly different from modern practices of stalking patterns on the Vogue website, noting the numbers of the dozen patterns with which you are obsessed, making note of the $2.99 sale days at Jo-ann, showing up early on the first day of the sale and then ravaging the pattern drawers like a rabid dog. But similar right?
She decided to buy “it.” As in one pattern. She went to the store to buy one pattern and she bought one pattern. In contrast, Ms. Selfish, being “completely feminine,” can always find room in her shopping bag for one more pretty pattern. And perhaps another after that.
Okay, another way in which Mrs. Vogue and Ms. Selfish differ? When Ms. Selfish wants to shop for a versatile fabric that she can wear year round, the first words that come to mind are not “lightweight silk brocade”!
Another difference? Ms. Selfish does not often leave the fabric store with a tiny little bag like that under her arm. I have a hard time imaging Mrs. Vogue lumbering out of Mood with two enormous shopping bags dragging along the ground, trying to wrestle herself and her packages through the subway turnstile.
Nope. Ms. Selfish does not change into business casual to sew. Usually I start off in sweats which can be easily tugged off if I need to try on my masterpiece in progress, and eventually this just turns into me sewing in my underwear.
Hey cool! Ms. Selfish also uses her dining room table for sewing! Of course, Ms. Selfish does NOT use her dining room table for dining. It’s always too covered with sewing crap, duh.
Oh my goodness! I’m sure this is a best practice, but I have to say, I don’t know if I’ve ever done this. Once or twice at most maybe. I have perhaps torn a straight edge in the past, but this seems like a step for a real stickler. Does anyone else still do this regularly? If so, my hat is off to you.
Of course it was perfect. I’m pretty sure Mrs. Vogue does not ever encounter imperfection in any aspect of her sewing. Not to ruin the suspense but guess whether her dress is going to fit on the first try or not. Guess.
Egad! I just skipped a whole bunch of boring stuff about her pressing tissue paper and laying out the pattern pieces EXACTLY the way that pattern tells her to (she’s pretty much a slave to whatever the pattern says.) But look at Mrs. Vogue going right for her fashion fabric! For all of her thread pulling, edge straightening compulsiveness, Mrs. Vogue is one daredevil of a hobby seamstress! Brand new pattern, but no muslin, no tissue fitting, no measuring… yikes! Woman, that is SILK FRIGGIN’ BROCADE you’re about to cut into! Are you crazy? What if it doesn’t fit?? I guess they don’t feature you in the Vogue Sewing Book if you aren’t a perfect Vogue size. Also, nothing ever goes wrong in Mrs. Vogue’s sewing world so I guess she can hack recklessly into pricey fabric like it’s newsprint!
Phew. At least she’s got a little bit of sense here. Some nice safe basting. Good choice. Of course, as it turns out…
… yep, she could have gotten by without the basting because (I’m sure you’ve all been on the edges of your seats in suspense), the dress fit perfectly on the first try! Wow, Mrs. Vogue loves the word “perfect.” She sure does use it a lot. Lucky lucky Mrs. Vogue and her industry standard figure. [Or perhaps the takeaway message here is that Vogue patterns give you a great fit on the first try? Why alter when you can buy a Vogue?]
Yes, Mrs. Vogue, I have to agree with you on that one.
Ah, what a gracious world, and what a luxury to have your helpful sister come and mark your hem while you stand straight and still. No, the closest Ms. Selfish comes is standing in front of the bathroom mirror while barking instructions to Dan to pin various bits of half-finished garment together around her body or to her bra straps because she can’t reach her back without sticking her own fingers with pins.
Oh, no no no. Ms. Selfish does not put her pretty dress in a pretty basket and take her pretty dog to sit under a pretty tree full of cherry blossoms to finish her hems. First of all, by this point in the sewing process, her hair is crazy and unfit for the public to see. Moreover she’s probably still in her underwear, and it’s like 2:30AM or something.
Ms. Selfish does this too. It is often met with responses such as, “Haven’t I already seen that one?” and “Didn’t you make one just like that already?”
In the end, hubby is so pleased with the dress that he buys her some pearls and takes her dancing. Fair enough, Mrs. Vogue. It all worked out for you in the end…. this time.
The end!
How about you? Do you sew like Mrs. Vogue? Does anyone sew like Mrs. Vogue?
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March 24, 2010 at 4:33 pm
Karen
Ha! Love Mrs. Vogue! I’m with you on the inevitability of ending up sewing in my underwear. If Mrs. Vogue sewed in her underwear (which she never, ever would) you can believe the bra and panties matched perfectly. Not like me.
March 24, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Sophia
“Nope. Ms. Selfish does not change into business casual to sew. Usually I start off in sweats which can be easily tugged off if I need to try on my masterpiece in progress, and eventually this just turns into me sewing in my underwear.”
OMG.. I laughed out loud to this one… so glad I’m not the only one.
March 24, 2010 at 4:47 pm
Trisha
This was a great story to end the day with!!! I can’t believe how often Ms. Vogue uses the word perfect. Too funny!
March 24, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Meredith P
No, no, I’m much more like you SS, at least with the “sewing in underwear” bit. OK, I confess, I have straightened the grain a time or two. Frankly, though, I’m finding that fabrics today (as opposed to those I encountered in my sewing youth ) just don’t straighten like they used to. Probably more “finishing” or “finishes” on the fabric. I do more of a visual straightening and make sure any ripples are out of it now. Besides, I’m usually trying to scrape a quarter centimeter more out of the fabric, so I wouldn’t dream of cutting anything off beforehand.
And hand basting and hemming? Ha! That’s why they invented sewing machines! I do have some animal involvement in sewing. Generally involves removing feline multiple times from cutting table, pressing table, sewing machine bed, etc. There’s also the occasional cat barf removal from WIP. Luckily, it’s never happened on a dry clean only project…so far. You have a cat, SS, you understand. :-)
March 24, 2010 at 6:14 pm
selfishseamstress
Oh, I do. Last night I found a little present from my kitty in one of my ballet shoes. Awesome!
March 24, 2010 at 4:59 pm
Judy
What got me was the HEELS she put on for trying on the basted dress! Fair enough for the hem, but for a first (and only – HAH!) fitting?!
March 24, 2010 at 5:02 pm
Anna
Naturally. And we always have a hot dinner waiting for our husbands, while decked out in pearls and heels. HAH
March 24, 2010 at 5:03 pm
Elizabeth
I sure live in that world. Oh and I’m a billionaire too. My kid cleans up after himself, and brushes his teeth without being tied down. The nanny works for free. And the house magically stays clean all the time. Yep, that’s my world, Mrs. Vogue is just a guest here.
March 24, 2010 at 5:06 pm
~buzzybee~
What an adorable article – both by Vogue and yourself!
And it seems like there sure is a lot of us sewing in our underwear!
March 24, 2010 at 5:07 pm
Venus de Hilo
This charming story made my perfect day! What a hoot.
I confess to sometimes pressing an especially wrinkled bit of pattern tissue, but follow a layout diagram? I thought those were just suggestions. You know, for sewists who buy fabric to length and purpose instead of rummaging in the stash for something that might possibly work if I take a little creative license with the layout.
March 24, 2010 at 6:16 pm
selfishseamstress
Oh, I *always* press the tissue… It comes out of the envelope so wrinkly. I just didn’t post the photo of her doing so. But are the layout diagrams… pretty much never the best use of the fabric!
March 24, 2010 at 5:08 pm
Shiny Green Penny
Ok, I really needed a good laugh at the end of a long day. This was so funny that I kept reading parts aloud to my husband, though I could hardly get the words out due to laughing so hard! Especially the sewing-in-your-underwear bit……and here I thought I was the only nut to do that (my toddler questions me on why I’m not wearing clothes in the sewing room – so I guess it must seem slightly strange)
March 24, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Vicki
Of course I do! I’m perfect too! I was born in 1958…maybe I shouldn’t say that…forget I said that…
March 24, 2010 at 5:13 pm
Meredith P
I meant to add–at the beginning of my long missive–hysterical post! Have you seen the legendary video of the teenaged girl using her Featherweight to whip up a new wardrobe? It’s from the 40’s or 50’s. Priceless! It’s on the YouTubes. Part 1:
March 24, 2010 at 6:32 pm
Amy
at least she tissue fit and had to adjust the darts! and gosh they are all so thin!
Thanks for posting this. i ‘ve never seen it!
March 25, 2010 at 10:25 am
Meredith P
Well, they’re teenagers. I was thin as a rail then (not in ’48-when I was a teen) too. ;-)
I had forgotten how creepy these young ladies were. I think part 2 has the fashion show they put together with friends (“we can put on a show”).
March 24, 2010 at 6:37 pm
selfishseamstress
That is TOO awesome. I didn’t see a Featherweight in it though? I love the fact that Johnny just walks in. And that they spend part of their afternoon looking out the window and mocking women who pass by the house. And the almost zombie-like “I just let my pattern tell me what to do.” Awesome :)
March 25, 2010 at 3:07 am
merboh
There’s a second part to the video! That’s where the featherweight appears.
After the vid finishes, look at the line of more videos that appears at the bottom of the screen.
Oh, the lovely calm way they speak to each other–creeperific!
March 24, 2010 at 11:57 pm
Dayna
I love that the magically fall in to each others arms and start dance mid conversation.
March 25, 2010 at 10:34 am
Meredith P
How cool is that: the video embeds automagically just by including the link!?!
March 24, 2010 at 5:18 pm
marLou
Hilarious!!! I can’t stop laughing. Mrs. Vogue must be a Stepford wife. I like the part where she is sewing outside in her garden because she finds it best to sew in natural light. I can’t even begin to explain how totally impossible that is for me (among all the other things)! Such a funny fairy tale!
March 24, 2010 at 5:21 pm
Rose in SV
hahah! I *wish* that I lived such a charmed life. I’m giggling for many reasons–last year I gave up my small dining table for a cutting table. The cutting table gets better use.
The other reason I”m laughing is that many of my friends of a certain age who learned how to sew in in the 1970’s, during middle school and high school (and who don’t sew now), always recount to me that thread pulling/evening up the edges/grain checking task with an air of bemused mystery. Their home ec teachers always taught them to pull the thread across, but the teachers never explained *WHY* it was important (other than getting an A in the class). My friends are astonished when I tell them that I never do it.
Thank you for sharing!
March 24, 2010 at 5:21 pm
amber
I LOVE storytime with Ms. Selfish! I’m crying I’m laughing so hard. And good lord, I thought *I* was the only one that wound up just sitting there sewing in her underwear by the end of the evening. I mean, at some point, it’s just too much time to put the sweats back on. Whew! I am glad to know I’m in such good company. :)
March 24, 2010 at 5:23 pm
peter
Hah! I have never cast more than a cursory glance at those layout instructions, which is why it’s nice to buy cheap fabric: you can add an extra yard for very little money and not have to worry.
I bet Mrs. Vogue had really bad breath, or SOMETHING.
March 24, 2010 at 5:25 pm
DW
Leaving the fabric store looking and feeling like a pack mule? Check!
Sewing in sweats, then forgoing that for just underwear? Check!
Ironing the heck out of every single step? Check!
Roping reluctant husband into pinning/holding up/marking? Check!
Refusing to go to bed, in order to get *just a bit* more done? Check!
Modeling finished items for a clueless, but generally supportive spouse? Check!
Cutting silk brocade on the first shot? Come again?
Basting by hand? What?
Straightening the grain? I don’t even know what that MEANS!
You and me, we live in the same world. Mrs. Vogue is from Jupiter.
March 24, 2010 at 6:17 pm
selfishseamstress
Whoo-hoo, 21st century sewing! Though I will confess to hand basting quite a bit… it’s just habit :)
March 24, 2010 at 5:38 pm
Toby Wollin
On the one end, this story is hilarious; on the other hand, when I had my first Home Ec class in (whispering) 1964, this was the way we were taught too. Everything was going to be ‘perfect’. No one ever had any fitting issues. no one ever had any shrinkage issues. No one ever had any ‘non-straight grain” issues. Just pick out your pattern and your fabric and go to it!! I think this is also a major reason why there are a zillion women around (or a certain age) who do not sew for themselves any more. Quilts and home dec, yep. Clothing for small children, etc. But no sewing for themselves because they don’t look like Mrs. Vogue there – and they never learned how to fit, or adjust a pattern or do a muslin or anything. And after 2 or 3 ‘wadders’, they don’t bother any more.
March 24, 2010 at 6:23 pm
selfishseamstress
If home ec sewing had been my introduction to sewing, I’m sure I’d have given it up right after middle school too! I don’t even want to think about those elastic waist jams made of quilting fabric…
March 24, 2010 at 7:26 pm
lorrwill
Oh Toby thank you for clearing up my sewing dysfunction! I am also a Home Ec Survivor (70’s) but am stubborn and bound and determined to really learn to sew.
I have been look at the things people with NO sewing training are making and wondering what is wrong with me.
Now I know. I owe you chocolate.
March 24, 2010 at 5:47 pm
Deb
This Vogue story really shows how much culture & communication have changed, in many ways other than those discussed here. This feels as foreign to me as not just late 1950s Vogue but that TV show, V! Because it’s not a mockery story, it’s real, but it’s so unreal.
March 24, 2010 at 6:18 pm
selfishseamstress
Yikes…. please tell me that V (either the 1980s version or the new one) isn’t real in any way… :)
March 24, 2010 at 5:57 pm
arnysews
Fabulous post, I love the naiveté of it. It eludes to a simpler time, which of course we all know it wasn’t.
I am also an “in my underwear” sewer, although mostly the t-shirt goes back on after fitting.
It’s hard to keep the faith about sewing the perfect garment when I look down while I’m sitting at the sewing machine and see my belly resting in my lap LOL.
March 24, 2010 at 6:10 pm
Amanda S.
Hysterical! Thanks for sharing. I wonder if ladies back then rolled their eyes at this type of thing or really felt the pressure to be perfect. On the topic of pulling threads, I only do that for sheer/slinky fabrics or looser woven suitings. It’s really a good way to make sure you cut everything on grain, and I actually just had to do it for my current project. I’m not sure I’d take the time for a sturdy fabric like silk brocade.
March 24, 2010 at 6:10 pm
Amy
ok I admit it. i always press my patterns. it helps me feel prepared. And if i don’t i inevitably will fuck up cutting it out. i also generally rip the crossgrain to get a straight edge. I can never just pull one thread without a disaster. BUT I do sew in my underwear or something easily removable like sweats and am generally carrying unwieldy sized bags on public transit. Did Mrs Vogue need to pick up any notions or interfacing or anything while she was purchasing said pattern and silk???
March 24, 2010 at 6:20 pm
selfishseamstress
Oh, I’m totally with you on the tissue pressing– I always do it. I’m not sure how one could use envelope patterns without pressing them.
Mrs. Vogue purchased thread and a zipper. Because the envelope said what length and type to get, she had “no problem picking one” :)
March 24, 2010 at 6:12 pm
formalsandmore
Too funny!!! I am one that learned to sew (partly) in home-ec class; learned the whole thread pulling thing; only bought one pattern and fabric needed for said one pattern; hand basting, all of it. Times have changed. Now, I’m right there with the rest of you, sewing in my sweats (or not), usually cutting out on the dining room table or sometimes the floor, NEVER hand baste! However, in Mrs. Vogues defense (or maybe just my own), I almost never do a muslin for myself. I am one of the lucky ones -not perfect! Just lucky!
March 24, 2010 at 6:21 pm
sewbissy
Best post ever. In my dream sewing world, I would have a pretty folding screen where I could try on garments-in-process. You know, less apt to shock the neighbors when I change in full view of the windows because I’m so anxious to see how something fits.
March 24, 2010 at 6:23 pm
Becky
Yes, my sewing turns out like this all the time. And that is why I am NOT currently sitting in front of the computer, completely dissecting one of my creations because the pattern-fabric matchup makes me look like a blue-spotted whale. Absolutely not.
March 24, 2010 at 6:37 pm
Jan
Hee, best story ever! DH keeps looking over, wondering why I’m laughing like a maniac. I remember learning to pull threads to straighten the grain in home ec in the ’70s … never do it anymore. And they never taught us about fitting in home ec. But I do hand baste, and confess that I often sit near a window or outside to sew in natural light, especially if I’m working with a dark color. It’s just easier on middle-aged eyes. (Your mag and I are the same vintage, lol.) And at my age (and because i have a teen DS who frequently wanders in to my sewing room to yak), I sew clothed! :-)
March 24, 2010 at 6:43 pm
Kennis
Hilarious. You remind me of those greeting cards that use old photos but with new commentaries.
March 24, 2010 at 6:48 pm
Susannah
What a lovely story! My favourite bit was early on. I’m sure that there are at least some of your readers who also hanker for “a closet that holds enough pretty clothes to fill a very gay and active life”????
March 24, 2010 at 6:59 pm
Weaverbec
This is a hoot! I also learned in Home-Economics to pull threads to find the grain. And to pull on opposite bias corners if the grain needed straightening. It does work. I haven’t done that since 1975! They didn’t teach us how to fit. We just went by our measurements and hoped the project fit. Usually, it had that “home-made” look.
I’ve learned to fit patterns, and yes I end up sewing in my underwear too! DH is such a good sport. He pins as needed and admires all my work. Mrs. Vogue doesn’t have anything on us!
March 24, 2010 at 7:07 pm
lorrwill
But OF COURSE I sew exactly like Mrs. Vogue.
Then the clock-radio wakes me up.
Sheesh. What a fantasy they were selling. But your color commentary is da bomb!
Ok, yes I learned how to “straighten” the grain of fabric in Home Ec in the 70’s. I haven’t done it since the early 80’s. But I still do tailor’s tacks. Oh wait, Mrs. Perfect doesn’t have to bother with such things, now does she?
March 24, 2010 at 7:14 pm
selfishseamstress
For all of her thread pulling fastidiousness, it turns out that Mrs. Vogue uses (gasp!) a tracing wheel (I didn’t post that picture, but she does say it’s her preferred method of transferring markings.) That’s right, no tailors tacks for her! Despite the edge straightening indoctrination, I think Mrs. Vogue is a convenience sewer at heart!
March 24, 2010 at 7:08 pm
Betsy
I just can’t stop laughing…….I can’t wait to sit in my garden and hand hem my next vogue dress.
March 24, 2010 at 7:30 pm
reilly
I have no idea what the purpose of that thread pulling is! And her pattern pieces look un-cut when she’s pinning them to the fabric!
I’d like to see the behind the scenes with Mrs. Vogue’s “sister” – I have a feeling she’s the Cinderella of this story.
March 24, 2010 at 7:44 pm
selfishseamstress
Ah, the pattern pieces thing is a vintage pattern thing. The patterns in the late 1950s were one size to an envelope and all of the pieces were separate rather than on big sheets. The pattern pieces had a margin around them (not a seam allowance, the seam allowance was included). You were meant to pin the pieces to the fabric and then cut on the outlines, cutting through the tissue and fabric at once. I know people who still do this, leaving a margin around the tissue pieces. I guess it’s arguably faster because you only need to do one precise cut, rather than doing a precise cut of the tissue, laying it out and then doing a precise cut with the fabric.
March 25, 2010 at 12:10 pm
mjb
Wow- that’s how my mom taught me to cut tissue patterns and I never knew why. Now I trace most of my patterns, though.
May 21, 2010 at 2:38 am
Tilia
That’s also murder on your fabric scissors! O.O
March 24, 2010 at 8:51 pm
Nikole
leaving fabric store with more at least two bags HEAVY bags….check
sewing in underwear….check
pressing after each stitch….check
hemming….pin it, check in mirror and adjust as necessary.
toiles…. it depends
The thread pulling is so you can find the right grain line and not place your pattern piece off-grain. I’ve seen some off grain sewing and it’ ‘aint pretty but there is an easier way to do it other than snipping away at silk brocade. Just make sure your straight grain line (yes all of them on the millions of pattern pieces you have: even the small ones) are all the same distance from the selvage edge…. just measure with your tape measure
March 24, 2010 at 8:11 pm
Hillary
Oh sweet jebus that was hilarious. I am so reassured nobody pulls threads anymore because that’s been a perpetual fret for me. I’ve been so instilled by the vintage sewing books I read that it is imperative, but it takes forever and activates the most diabolically perfectionistic part of me— If you all don’t do it, I am SO done.
Also, upon reflection I am going to blame my recent sewing slump on inability to sew in underwear due to freezing cold apartment. It takes so long to disentangle from & then get back into all the layers of sweaters and long underwear and all for fittings, it’s a wonder I get anything done. Ah nekkid summer sewing, I’ve missed you!
March 24, 2010 at 8:14 pm
Kristie
Yeaaaaah! (clapping hands) Fun story time! That was hilarious. Mrs. Perfect gets so much done in such little time. . . so not me.
March 24, 2010 at 8:33 pm
Kim
You are so funny, Ms. Selfish. I want Ms. Vogue’s dress — I wonder what pattern it is?
March 24, 2010 at 8:57 pm
selfishseamstress
I just checked the book and I didn’t see an explicit mention of it. But in the last picture, that tiny number says 9378, so maybe that is the pattern number?
March 24, 2010 at 8:56 pm
allisonC
I loved this story! Mrs Vogue seems a complex girl, sometimes being overcautious and sometimes totally reckless. The part where she changed into her couture pants to do the sewing was hilarious.
March 24, 2010 at 10:05 pm
Brenda
Hmmmmm……I’ve been sewing for 35 years and I have never ironed a pattern piece. I’ve never seen my mother do it either and she has been sewing for over 60 years. A little hand smoothing and there ya go! Loved the story. My mother never made muslins either. I had never heard of such a thing until I started blogging. Now I muslin all the time! Of course, I’m much older and everything is bigger and lower than it used to be so I’m not a right-out-of-the-envelope size anymore!! Maybe I’ll start ironing pattern pieces!
March 24, 2010 at 10:51 pm
juebejue
pssft! she’s such a miss perfect. When i buy patterns (1 dollar sales!) I buy 10 of them all at once! and I buy fabric without considering what I will make out of them :P also, i never make muslins, even with silk. well, actually, i occasionally do use a crappier but wearable fabric to try out patterns if I intend to use an expensive fabric on it.
I also do end up sewing in my underwear (or even nakid!) Maybe that is why my fiance fully support my hobby :)
March 24, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Laura
Iron the pattern pieces? What world does she live in? Iron out the fold marks? But 3/4 of the time, you need the freaking fold! Okay, if I’m working with something other than cotton, I will, occasionally, press the seams. But not often. Usually, I’m working with cottons and get great seams if I sew with the right tension. I do have to iron for french seaming, but… *sigh* I’m about to start a marathon. Evie needs a new dress, and I need to experiment with batiste!
March 24, 2010 at 10:59 pm
Laura
Oh, I forgot to say… My usual first step is to toss the instructions. They’re just not helpful. More often than not, they just confuse me. So I never use the cutting layouts. And rarely any of the actual printed instructions. I mean, darts, etc are printed on the pattern tissue. The only thing I use the instructions for is knowing which pattern pieces to use. If I look at them for a few minutes, I usually know how they fit together.
March 25, 2010 at 2:00 am
inkstain
Oh, this takes me back! I think perhaps I’ve been trying all my life to get to that rose brocade dress with the guy pulling me off to a wonderful evening. This was my mother’s only sewing book, and it was the first thing that got me started. This woman and her weekend of sewing has haunted me ever since! I can’t believe you’ve found and posted this. Plus, a million thanks to Meredith for posting this home ec movie. It’s hysterical, but then I spent my entire grade school years watching these kinds of movies, starting with ‘The Story of Milk.’
This slavery to the instructions must have got deeply embedded my my brain, because I’m awed by those of you who are raised in a different school and just toss the instructions.
The only way I finally got some courage was to move away from the Big4 and start using Burda. The act of tracing out the patterns shifted me into a more “in charge” frame of mind but I think that Vogue Woman will always be with me, no matter what.
March 25, 2010 at 3:08 am
Marie-Christine
Well! I’m also a survivor of 60s home-ec, only French-style. Worked on the same damn baby shirt for all 4 years of it.
“But I’m not going to have children!”
“you’ll change your mind”
“No I won’t”
“shut up and sew”
etc.
endless hand buttonholes too, only those I still do, they turn out better.
However I was alive in 1958, and old enough to remember clearly my mother sewing. She did get one pattern and one piece of fabric, and sometimes even wore a suit to go shopping. She didn’t fuck around wth the thread pulling because back then sales people knew enough to tear most fabrics (still do in France, interestingly) or to cut it straight to begin with. Never pressed her tissue. Did sew in her undies, setting a sad example for later generations.. Had an easier time getting the 5 year old to pin her hems than the boyfriend (yes, even in the 50s they had boyfriends, and proud of it). Hair in a lifelong tangle, also hereditary. Made me clothes out of the scraps, sticking me with pins in the process occasionally.
Let’s see, I can pack fabric like a mule, I cut with a rotary cutter, I only hand-baste zippers, I never stick myself with pins..
March 25, 2010 at 3:17 am
Uta
Who doesn’t sew like that? Ha ha! Maybe it’s a generational thing? I remember my mother sewing much like that. She didn’t have a stash (no money), so she only bought the fabric for the project (A little less than the pattern said, to save money and so she wouldn’t have scraps left over.) And the pattern if the month’s Burda (that would be looked through but not bought) didn’t have a suitable pattern in it. I never saw her make a muslin, but all her stuff fit. She did cut generous allowances and basted/tried on (I remember doing this a lot as a kid) before sewing. Maybe it was a more pragmatical way of sewing? You know, as little time and money invested for the best possible outcome. Oh, and she was always respectably dressed. You just didn’t not dress in those days!
March 25, 2010 at 3:43 am
Jana
Yeah, my mother and grandmother sewed without muslins too… it´s the way it was done that time. I don´t make muslins, but I have very average figure, every 38 fits me…
March 25, 2010 at 3:40 am
Jana
I´m about to rip all the seams I did on my asian inspired dress yesterday , so… :D
March 25, 2010 at 3:53 am
Vildy
“eventually this just turns into me sewing in my underwear.”
haha… I can’t tell you how many times someone is at the door
and I can’t find any clothes nearby to pull on. So I grab a coat
and answer the door like something from those old naughty housewife
pornos.
March 25, 2010 at 4:07 am
Vildy
Love the home ec nightmares. I was in 7th grade and we were to make a wrap skirt from a pattern. I was less than 5 feet tall and weighed well under a 100 pounds with a 21 1/2 waist. We had one store in the next small town that carried some patterns. My father left the chicken farm to drive me over and find a pattern and fabric. They had remnants stacked on top of the one pattern cabinet. I got the only wrap skirt pattern I could find that was close to my measurements – about 4 inches too big in the waist. We were directed absolutely not to alter the pattern. That would give me a skirt I couldn’t wear. So I did alter it and she checked all the work and gave me the fisheye and withering comments. I don’t remember the grade I got but pretty sure it was in the direction of Fail. There was, by the way, no instruction whatever in any of the classes we attended once a week all semester. We were supposed to just sit there and sew. I have no idea what I did in class because I sewed mine at home in no time.
My mother, by the way, seemed to be able to drape and sew – she once worked in a sewing factory. But she absolutely could not understand how to cut out a pattern or sew from those directions. I would sometimes bring her borrowed dresses from my friends and she would make me copies.
March 25, 2010 at 4:09 am
Jacqui
I’m actually up at midnight after a bout of “just a little bit more before I go to bed” sewing. I’m sure my eyes are as red as that lovely brocade! I started to iron my patterns fairly recently because it seems to make a difference in the accuracy of the cutting and even to the size of the pattern piece, especially if the tissue is badly creased. And I’m big on pulling threads to get the grain, though it can lead to madness if the weave isn’t straight or the pattern isn’t printed to the grain. I never sew muslins though, I’m totally with Mrs. Vogue on that one, though the fit…well yeah, working on that! I learned from my mum and she didn’t make them so I have always regarded them as a waste of time and money. I want the clothing now! I should probably change my mind like I did with ironing the pattern. My mum also taught me to cut the fabric using the roughly-cut pattern which I’d love to still do as it’s miles faster, but not so great for the fabric-only scissors! We also use to weigh the pattern down with books instead of pinning it, I started pinning as soon as I left home as it’s a hopeless method really.
March 25, 2010 at 4:39 am
Jessica
Ha! It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who sews in her underwear.
March 25, 2010 at 4:50 am
inkstain
Sorry to come back, but I viewed Mrs Vogue again and I realized something truly awful. When we first met, I thought Mrs Vogue looked really old. Now I realize I could be her mother….
No, I never made muslins…and now I realize that it was because of Mrs. Vogue. Also, until I started using Burda, with its plethora of patterns all at once, I always bought one pattern and the fabric to go with it. The whole idea of a “stash” is still alien to me, or rather I consider my stash the stuff leftover from finished projects.
One more horrifying realization. Is it because of Mrs Vogue that I always think I have to finish any project in a single weekend?
This is a scary flashback indeed…
March 25, 2010 at 5:49 am
Amy
This is hilarious!!! Just what I needed to start my day off right. :-)
March 25, 2010 at 5:55 am
Melanie
Marvelous, marvelous, marvelous! What a great start to a really dreary morning here in Nashville. I hate to be repetitive, but seriously what a relief to know I’m not the only one desperately hemming in underwear in the dead of night so that I can wear that new dress tomorrow morning!
I don’t want to be a Stepford, but sometimes I think it would be nice to have things run so smoothly just ONCE!
SS, saw your lovely little dress on Male Pattern Boldness this morning too! Lovely!
March 25, 2010 at 6:34 am
karen
Wow, there’s an entire world of women out there sewing in their underwear. I feel so much more normal. Okay, maybe not normal, but you all understand. I have full curtains in my sewing room for the protection of neighbors.
I have been known to iron my pattern tissue, but only because I can never be bothered to fold it flat when I use it and it all ends up in a big wedge in the envelope. Basting . . . occasionally, like if I’m trying to keep a plaid matched along a seam. Cutting straight into a fabric . . . yep. Sometimes with really bad results.
Man who will buy me pearls and take me dancing in celebration of my new dress? Nope. Especially not if I’ve been sewing in my underwear.
March 25, 2010 at 7:16 am
Mikhaela
I love your pattern story! The only things I have in common with Mrs. Vogue are that I do always pull a thread to straighten the edges of my fabric (I read that I should do it once and have just gotten into the habit), I do a lot of hand basting and I usually hand-sew my hems. But never in my life have I left a store with just one pattern or fabric, just sliced willy-nilly into silk brocade without doing any fitting or muslin first, or found a perfect fit right out of an envelope… and I always sew in a stretchy little knit dress that can be easily pulled up over the head, not “slacks.”
March 25, 2010 at 7:17 am
hoosiermama
I often pull a thread, for one of 2 reasons: 1)It’s great for home dec sewing, like napkins, where you need to make a narrow, straight hem. If your grain is perfectly straight, then straight, even hems are easy. 2)When cutting garment pieces from a double layer of fabric, how do you guarantee that the grain of the bottom layer is lined up? By matching up that perfectly straight line where you pulled the thread.
March 25, 2010 at 7:23 am
Odette
Excuse me, but where is her high-powered light with attached magnifier, like I use, just so I can SEE the needle, much less thread it?
Enjoyed the story…thanks, SS!
March 25, 2010 at 8:35 am
thelandofka
Oh, you are so funny, and your commentary fit what I would say to their narrative, too! My basement is a bit too cold to sew in my underwear, but I do wear comfy clothes I can take off quickly to try on my creations. My hubby was privy to that at one point and noted that he should watch me sew more often. ;)
March 25, 2010 at 9:08 am
sigrid
So funny, these vintage books are sewing porn: they just airbrush right over all the imperfections and present perfection as something easily attainable for all of us out there sewing in our undies.
And yes, I often pull a thread, because my mom told me to.
March 25, 2010 at 9:10 am
Gordita
Apparently I am “completely feminine” as well. I’m not sure I have ever walked into a fabric store unaccompanied and walked out with a small bag that contained only the items I needed for the project I was currently working on. When the Huz is with me, that’s another story. I become less feminine with him around.
March 25, 2010 at 9:33 am
wan-nabe
oh em gee. i have tears running down my face from reading this post. TEARS! and i’m at work. hell.
best. post. ever. and i’ve said that a lot while reading your blog. you just keep topping yourself. bravo.
March 25, 2010 at 9:34 am
Catherine
Ms. Selfish, you killed it with this post. I’d say it’s now nap time but I’m still laughing to hard to settle down on my play mat. :)
March 25, 2010 at 10:18 am
Dei
I refuse to read this blog while at work. In this dead silent office, which is offensive in that I require at least one t.v. blasting and several kids screaming about to function properly, I’m sitting here snickering away at what I suspect is the standard sewing experience. Scruffy sweats, pins everywhere, late night, sewing fun-fest well describe by you. In the words of Tim Gunn, “Carry on.”
March 25, 2010 at 10:22 am
Liz B
I guess I never truly believed that I was the only one who ended up sewing in my underwear.
March 25, 2010 at 10:33 am
Meredith P
At a lecture a few years ago, the speaker (who I don’t remember-sorry) reminded us (particularly us “youngsters”) about things called “foundation garments”. The reason that there really were fewer fitting problems with patterns prior to the 60s was that women were shaped to fit the clothes with all manner of girdles, corsets, etc., rather than the other way around. During the 60s, we lost foundation garments and found free love ;-) Seriously, I was born in the latter part of the 50’s, and I remember even my slim mother wore girdles (albeit not the super duper boned, lace up ones). Actually, I do not remember the “free love” part, except on the TV news, Life Magazine, and so on. We also got…wait for it…pantyhose! God, I am a fecking old fert!
March 25, 2010 at 11:28 am
Sarah
Brilliant! I am so pleased to hear that sewing in one’s underwear is apparently the norm — it’s just such a pain to have to be getting re-dressed every 5 minutes. Definitely going to have to refer my husband to this post next time he raises an eyebrow when he finds me running back and forth between sewing machine and ironing board in my knickers!
March 25, 2010 at 11:28 am
Angela
Haha… the whole story is very funny! :) Hehehe.. I’m glad that I’m in good company when sewing in tshirt and elastic-waisted bottoms for fittings and then eventually sewing in undies.
March 25, 2010 at 1:54 pm
Millie
Hi, I’m Millie, and I too sew in my underwear. (What a way to introduce onesself!) Here I was thinking I thought I was the only one! It makes so much sense if you’re trying to get the fit right. It’s good to know I’m in such excellent company, though.
March 25, 2010 at 2:09 pm
San Antonio Sue
Loved the post. Can’t argue with any comments. BTW, I always cut my notches “out”, not into the seam allowance. My mother said so! I’m going to send the link to this post to my ASG neighborhood group. They’ll love it as much as I do!
March 25, 2010 at 7:03 pm
Christie
How come it doesn’t show the part with her slugging down a couple ( or more) glasses of
wine before hubby shows up after work expecting a 5 course dinner?? That’s what the ladies I knew in the 50’s used to do.
March 25, 2010 at 7:54 pm
Jackie
Glad to know I’m not the only one who sews in their underwear.
March 26, 2010 at 4:57 am
Sarah M
What a perfect story. Perfect.
March 30, 2010 at 5:13 am
Susannah
Hilarious because true.
I bet Adele Margolis could kick Ms. Vogue’s ass. Now there’s a realistic seamstress — after giving directions about how to whack your fabric with a 2×4 to get really sharp pleats, she cautions that this may cause alarm and distress to the family members of “those of us who do our best sewing around midnight”.
April 3, 2010 at 4:42 am
MelbourneBelle
Mrs Vogue doesn’t pre-wash and iron her fabric?
May 21, 2010 at 12:17 am
Manon Antoinette
Oh my…. I use a shopping cart trolley for fabrics and have an entire filing cabinet for patterns! I can’t ignore a bargain either!
Sweats and a bra are usually my sewing gear in summer, but I’ve been known to sew in my underwear too, lol! Lightweight silk brocade, I don’t know what she does all year round… apparently no housework, no kids, no job… or would she clean house in business attire too?
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